Consent Awareness 101: It鈥檚 Not Always About Sex
November 30, 2018
Amanda Nagy
From left, Deborah Johnson 鈥18, Natalie Phillips 鈥18, Kira Findling 鈥19, India Wood 鈥18, and Joy Castro-Wehr 鈥20 paint one of the "founders rocks" in Tappan Square to celebrate Consent Month in April 2018.
Photo credit: Courtesy of Suzanne Denneen
Students鈥 and parents鈥 reactions have reaffirmed the value of 91直播鈥檚 鈥淟et鈥檚 Make Consent a Conversation鈥 campaign.
Sometimes it seems like the work that comes out of the Office of Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion is only about sex.
Rebecca Mosely, director of the office and 91直播鈥檚 Title IX coordinator, will be the first to tell you that it鈥檚 hard to talk about sex, but the matter of consent isn鈥檛 just sexual.
A year ago, Mosely鈥檚 office launched 91直播鈥檚 first consent awareness campaign. The slogan, 鈥淟et鈥檚 Make Consent a Conversation,鈥 has a multitude of meanings: make consent a conversation with yourself; a conversation with your partner; a conversation at home with your parents.
Although a majority of students were aware of the college鈥檚 sexual misconduct policy, there were just as many who had questions about how to practice clear consent.
鈥淏eing on a residential campus, college is the first time where you鈥檙e not going home at night to somewhere your friends are not,鈥 says Mosely, who began her 91直播 career in residential education before transitioning to her current role.
鈥淎t home, if you wanted to avoid a person or not hang out with them, you just went home. Here, you鈥檝e living, dining, and going to classes with them,鈥欌 she says. 鈥淩eally understanding how to ask for and gain consent in a relationship is more important than it has ever been before in students鈥 lives.鈥
In spring 2017, Mosely and Suzanne Denneen, program coordinator in the Office of Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion, attended a training workshop offered by the Ohio Alliance to End Sexualized Violence, a statewide anti-sexual violence coalition. With the training came an opportunity to receive grant funding for a consent awareness campaign. They immediately started brainstorming ideas on the car ride home.
鈥淲hat they talked about at the training really resonated with us,鈥 says Denneen, noting some of the market research they gleaned from the conference.
鈥淲e feel like there鈥檚 new energy coming in with this generation of students. For Gen Z, the digital world is very noisy, and they鈥檇 rather be invited to be a part of something instead of being told what to do. This sparked ideas about how the campaign should be more print-focused and more in-person.鈥
While there is no model or federal mandate for consent campaigns on college campuses, it鈥檚 considered a best practice. Before the campaign launched, 91直播 was already meeting four of the state of Ohio鈥檚 standards; a consent campaign was the final piece. Mosely and Denneen were awarded a $10,000 grant to make it happen.
鈥91直播 had spent prior years working on other best practices, such as creating solid education for our students, editing our sexual misconduct policy, and conducting climate surveys to gauge student experiences, behaviors, and perceptions. To me, consent awareness was the natural next step,鈥 Mosely says.
The survey says
91直播鈥檚 peer education program, Preventing and Responding to Sexual Misconduct (PRSM), trains first-years on the essentials of both consent and 91直播鈥檚 sexual misconduct policy. All first-year and transfer students are required to attend two PRSM-led training sessions their first year.
The fall workshop covers the basics of consent and the second workshop in February focuses on bystander intervention鈥攅ducating people on how to intervene when there is potential harm. Student PRSM trainers had already been using the slogan 鈥淢ake Consent a Conversation,鈥 but the message only existed on a sticker and a pen and hadn鈥檛 gained much traction.
Mosely鈥檚 office conducted a focus group in summer 2017 to gauge students鈥 interest in a campaign and get more information about issues surrounding consent on campus. A survey with those questions was sent to all students that summer, and the responses significantly influenced how they moved forward and shaped the campaign.
鈥淥ne of the things we heard was what type of products would be useful,鈥 Mosely says. Students told us we should use stickers and buttons, because trying to ask for or understand consent can be really awkward, and you don鈥檛 know how receptive the other person will be.
鈥淗aving some kind of visible sign that would indicate that the other person understood consent and wanted to talk about it was a way for them to feel more comfortable breaking into that kind of conversation.鈥
During the initial brainstorming, 鈥淲e were hearing that some students didn鈥檛 really know how to talk to each other about sex, let alone how to ask for consent or say no,鈥 Denneen says.
Armed with all of that information, they created a brochure that was sent to all students, and they engaged with other staff members on campus to develop posters, stickers, pins, and a series of videos. They also sent a letter to parents of first-years asking them to talk with their students about the brochure and discuss how the idea of consent would align with their family values.
Denneen says feedback to the brochure was positive. It even made headlines: a about the brochure by 91直播 parent Beth Wolfensberger Singer in the Boston Globe was a point of pride for everyone who worked on the campaign.
鈥淥ne of the things we鈥檝e come to appreciate about the campaign is that we鈥檝e been able to show how this kind of communication and consent practice isn鈥檛 just related to sexual interactions. It鈥檚 relevant to all of our interactions with one another,鈥 Mosely says. 鈥淚 think it also makes the content accessible to students who aren鈥檛 engaging in sexual interactions with one another.鈥
PRSM trainer and senior Kira Findling says students鈥 reactions have been overwhelmingly positive.
鈥淪tudent reactions are confirming my belief that a consent awareness campaign promotes healthy relationships on campus and keeps people safe,鈥 says Findling, a comparative American studies and cinema studies major from Sebastopol, California.
鈥淲hat I love about this campaign is that rather than focusing on what we shouldn鈥檛 do, it talks about what we can do to be kind and caring to one another on campus and beyond,鈥 Findling says.
PRSM continues to create and present workshops about different aspects of consent, including Consent Month in April,聽observed nationally as Sexual Assault Awareness Month.
鈥淚 feel really proud to be a PRSM trainer and to be involved in this work,鈥 Findling says. 鈥淭he posters are all around campus, so people are constantly seeing them and thinking about how to bring consent into their everyday lives. I think the next step is not letting these conversations end.鈥
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